Thursday, October 14, 2010

TRANSFER

Just had a call from the embryologist saying we are having transfer today. We have one great looking 8 cell embryo but the rest aren't looking so great. I'm pretty disappointed (ok, more than a little upset) but trying to hold it together as I don't want to ruin my 2WW by being distraught at having no frosties again. They will culture them on until Day 5 and see how they go but it's not looking good. I really hoped this cycle would be better than the last and the fact this could be our last chance weighs very heavily on my mind (due to the financial cost of IVF and the fact we don't know where we would get the money to try again). I plan to give this little embie everything I've got though and it only takes one right?

I really need some encouragement right now!

17 comments:

  1. sending you tons of pixies for your little guys!!!!

    Sending you tons of baby dust for your transfer!!!

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  2. Good luck!! stick embies stick.

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  3. Good luck today Haidee, and you are right. It only takes one! xx keeping everything crossed for a good transfer

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  4. one great looking 8 celled embie sounds great to me! i know you're a bit disappointed, but there's still time for the other embies to catch up, and i'll keep everything crossed for you that you have something to freeze. i spent too much of my 2ww worrying, so try to take it easy and just focus on the positive :o)

    i hear you on your other post about all the waiting we have to do during ivf. i thought a bfp meant that i'd be in the clear and could relax, but there's still more waiting waiting waiting on the other side. everything crossed for you to join me soon :o)

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  5. Hi Haidee, just logged on from Melbourne, and wanted to send you all my best wishes for today and let you know you will be in my thoughts constantly over the 2WW. I think you have so much more love and support out here than you even know, we are all wishing the best for you! I am sure if your little embie is even half as strong as you are then this is it my dear :) Take care, rest up, and I cant wait to read all about your fairy tale ending in a couple of weeks <3
    Jo (sushi_girl on BC) xoxo

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  6. Good luck Haidee, all my thoughts, prayers, wishes and hopes are with you for the next few weeks. Will be thinking of you xoxox'
    Kerry

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  7. Good Luck Haidee, you can do it! Just 1 is all it takes and this guy's obviously a strong one! Try to enjoy the 2ww (yeah right hey!) and fingers crossed you get some to freeze too

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  8. Sending you the best of wishes and hopes today! Praying for a sticky baby and all happiness

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  9. It only takes one. Focus ALL of your positive healthy energy on that little embie. I am sending loads of implantation energy your way!!! Breathe deep and take good care of yourself!!!

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  10. Hi Haidee
    It sure does only take one! All the best, I have been thinking of you always.
    Jo
    (Joanne_L on BC)

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  11. Emby Stick! Good luck Haidee - I had a dream about you last night, you've obviously been on my mind, you were holding a bub in your arms and i came running up to you, arms spread out for a massive hug (like in the movies) If my dreams are anything to go by, this is your time to shine hun. Don't let your thoughts ponder over the future obstacles, focus on the now. I'll be wishing and praying for you. Athena xox

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  12. All the best Haidee :) Sending you lots of positive thoughts.

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  13. That's right it only takes one! Praying for you and embie.

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  14. Hang in there Haidee! All it takes is one. Just relax and try to keep yourself distracted for this 2ww. Try not to think of it as your last time, but as another opportunity you are given.
    Hope that helps, Jill :)

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  15. Stick around, little embaby!! :-)

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  16. Good luck Haidee. Here's hoping this is one very sticky embie.

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  17. Hang in there hun and feel the love and positive vibes all around you. Hope today went well. xx

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