tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8347464733373565708.post7315976591438091861..comments2023-04-11T02:55:05.229+12:00Comments on MAYBE BABY . . . (or maybe the loony bin?): A DOWNWARD SPIRALHaideehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17388186444189056961noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8347464733373565708.post-49143184591567259532010-07-05T06:14:49.553+12:002010-07-05T06:14:49.553+12:00Hi, I love your posts....you write from the heart ...Hi, I love your posts....you write from the heart which we can all relate to on this journey....there are plenty of heart felt moments ! We are currently on our 3rd IVF with 4 natural miscarriages behind us...it has been a very long roller coaster but we know we will get there in the end ! Hopefully this round, but if not we will NEVER, NEVER, NEVER give up (I have this plaque splattered around the house to provide a constant reminder) ! Oh and the caffeine thing...it is a buggar but I guess we will do anything to realise our dream ! Keep up the great blogs and wishing you every success as well !Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8347464733373565708.post-54464963452557719172010-07-04T10:58:08.568+12:002010-07-04T10:58:08.568+12:00Thank you! Now I remember why I have to do it and ...Thank you! Now I remember why I have to do it and I know I am not the only one having a tough time of it. Addiction is so hard to break and I think I can honestly say that my coffee craving is an addiction. I've done it once and I can do it again!! Good luck girls with your cycles and investigations too!! xoxHaideehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17388186444189056961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8347464733373565708.post-44600677839913811572010-07-04T09:24:07.526+12:002010-07-04T09:24:07.526+12:00i totally understand the coffee thing but mine is ...i totally understand the coffee thing but mine is tea, i can happily drink up to 10 cups a day! now i am on my third ivf cycle (no positive results yet) i have cut it down to 2 maybe 3. my counseller said am i really going to put myself through all this and maybe less my chances for a few cups of tea (yes my head screamed!), it kind of put things into perspective.<br />i also think i will NEVER cope if this cycle doesnt work, but you know i am on number three, will lots of complications on the way, and i have survived, so has my relationship, and if this one doesnt work i will pick myself up and start again, you will find the money, as one of the nurses said to me, most people tend to get there in the end<br />good luck xxxxxxxxxxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8347464733373565708.post-38115126396135007492010-07-03T23:19:45.204+12:002010-07-03T23:19:45.204+12:00Caffine is a known cause of miscarriage so one thi...Caffine is a known cause of miscarriage so one thing that might help you get through the withdrawals and cravings is to get a coffee mug with a picture of a baby on it. That way you can evaluate if that cup of coffee is really worth it or if you can kick the habbit for the bigger prize at the end.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8347464733373565708.post-53617843815258746382010-07-03T10:03:46.223+12:002010-07-03T10:03:46.223+12:00It does suck that we have to go through soooo much...It does suck that we have to go through soooo much effort to have a baby and actually REALLY want one when there are so many unwanted pregnancies out there :( <br /><br />I'm currently having some tests after recurrent miscarriages so it's all a waiting game for me too. BUT, we will have a baby one way or the other and it will all be worth it in the end.<br /><br />You're a brilliant writer by the way and I'll be following you :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8347464733373565708.post-51770939379316204102010-07-02T18:21:42.144+12:002010-07-02T18:21:42.144+12:00In an effort to try and mitigate the caffeine-indu...In an effort to try and mitigate the caffeine-induced unhappiness - I really love the wallpaper you've found!<br />Much love and well wishes and good vibes for the next cycle...!<br />Ngaire xoxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com